While reading that post, I found myself becoming more and more afraid because there are so many things that one can do to screw up a good marriage, or to screw up a relationship that is good now without the benefit of marriage. On the other hand, it was really touching that so many people wrote in to say that reading that entry reminded them of the reasons that they love their partner.
Because, you & kikimoose have been together for so long, I think that you've already encountered most of the pitfalls that break up marriages - encountered & overcome them.
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Don't be afraid.